Every once in a while a few new observations occur to me about this social networking site.
Or maybe the observations are simply about my own life.
For example, you can organize your friends into categories. I currently have five: people from high school, people from college, friends my husband and I met through his job in the last town we lived in, people I have met in our current town, and family.
What is most interesting is that these categories do not overlap one iota. Most likely none of these people will ever meet each other. It is as though there are completely separate pockets to my life story that are totally unrelated. There are even more pockets than these five, but I haven’t met up with anyone from the others.
I have discovered friend surfing. If you aren’t friends with a person, they almost always have their profile set to private so you can’t see any of their information. BUT you can see their friends! Thusly, I can surf the friends of a friend, and from there find someone I know, or used to know, and surf their friends, ad nauseum. It is a strange journey down a bizarre garden path where names and faces from the past bloom amongst the unfamiliar flora.
When a certain person comes into view, it is as though the memory of them casts a light on a part of me that had been asleep since I last held them in my mind or saw them before me. I am not completely me without all the people that have shaped my existence.
My final thought of the day is to meditate on the act of “catching up” on the last 20 years with someone who was only ever an acquaintance. Of course any story we tell, no matter how many facts it relates, is in some way a lie due to all that we decide to leave out. So which version do I tell to whom? It is kind of fun to think about, really. I can highlight a particular chapter of my crazy journey to give a certain impression. I can turn my face slightly and appear a writer, a housewife, or a clown.
I know it’s a bit of a waste of time, commenting on someone’s status that isn’t even in my immediate vicinity just to make a witty joke or empathize with a human I once knew. I know it’s a bit extravagant to send them good karma or pass them a drink, poke them, throw snowballs at them, or buy them a fish for their aquarium. All kind of silly, really.
Yet, it apparently feeds me in some way since I keep going back to see what’s going on with everyone. And occasionally, it is also food for thought.